Dogs and Humans: Good Intentions and Misinterpretations

After reading the book by Roger Abrantes, “Dog Language, An Encyclopedia of Canine Behavior”, I learned so much more about how humans act around dogs and how they actually interpret our actions and behavior.

Lucky for us, since our relationship is something, ideally, that the dog and human both desire, most dogs are very adaptable and forgiving.

According to the book, several common misunderstandings happen when we greet a dog. First of all we smile. For a human this is a sign of friendliness. For a dog, this baring of the teeth is a threat. What is not mentioned in the book, but is my own humble opinion, is that dogs have become conditioned that this is associated with positive behavior. The fact that our voices are usually friendly, and possibly higher pitched helps and laughter and play time helps the dog to associate the smile with good things.

Secondly is the outstretched hand. According to the author, this violates the dog’s space and is threatening. Ideally, he says, you should bend down, not meet the dog’s eyes and allow the sniffing behavior until the dog has accepted you. Then stand slowly and interact. I believe that this is a good approach for a puppy or a passive dog. For a dog with high energy, nervous energy or shows aggression, I prefer to stand to show dominant position. (See my articles on Pack Mentality to understand “position”). I do not meet the eyes of the dog but do allow a short sniffing encounter. Then I interact. Therefore, I believe that you must read the dog you are encountering to know the best method in which to greet him. I also suggest that children never bend down or meet the dog’s eyes, as I have seen this bring out dominate behavior in even passive dogs.  They should also not be allowed to squeal or move quickly around a dog they have just met. This will increase the chances of a good encounter and decrease the chances of an accident.

One other misunderstanding that dogs tolerate is the hug. For humans it is a show of affection. For dogs it is a sign of dominance, of “holding him down”. If you look closely, and I have attached my own example, dogs will pull away from you or look away from you during this behavior. The ears and eyes will show this is not pleasurable for them. This is also very valuable lesson for children, as this is a common area where children are hurt because of the misinterpretation.  I agree with the author that for us to fully enjoy the relationship with our dogs, we need to remember: a dog is a dog. I think they are adaptable, but they were created unique from us. Unselfishly we should recognize that and interact in a way they will appreciate. For all they give to us, it is a small gift in return.

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 This article was written by Caroline Oldham of http://dogtrainingonlinetips.com - your online source for training tips, real life stories and advice in dealing with dogs. We ask that you consult with a professional dog trainer, veterinarian or canine behaviorist before implementing any of the advice or opinions contained on this site.